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As we all know, second weddings can occur for a few reasons. Just as the first wedding, it’s still up to the bride and groom how they’d like to celebrate their nuptuals. When it comes to planning, we can throw out the old rule book, because anything goes these days.
There are common myths that still remain about 2nd weddings that I’d like to “bust.” Let’s set the record straight!
Myth: Second-time brides and grooms shouldn’t have big and/or formal wedding ceremonies.
Why not? Divorce isn’t something people whisper about anymore — remarrying is nothing to be ashamed of and should be celebrated just as the first. Plus, divorce isn’t the only reason people remarry… widows and widowers deserve nice weddings! Consider, too, that those opposed to grand second weddings tend to forget that this may be the first time to the alter for one member of the marrying couple. Note: The same applies for wedding receptions.
Myth: No toasting at the rehearsal dinner or at the wedding for second-time brides and grooms.
Anyone who wants to make a toast should feel free to make a toast…Doesn’t every couple deserve well-wishes? Wedding attendants, guests, and the parents of the happy couple may be happy and excited and want to say a few words. Besides, how exactly do you specify “no toasts?”
Myth: Second-time brides can’t have bridesmaids, and second-time grooms can’t have groomsmen.
There’s no rule stating that you can’t have attendants at a second wedding. Again, everyone deserves the support of their family and friends. Besides, how special would it be to have your children or grandchildren by your side?
Myth: The bride can’t wear white when the wedding taking place is her second (or third, or fourth).
I’m not sure where this myth came from. Traditional brides may choose to wear white or ivory, and that is completely acceptable. Lots of ladies look great in white and ivory. Go for it!
Myth: Second-time brides must wear a bridal suit or a simple dress, never, ever a gown.
Some second-time brides wore elaborate wedding gowns at their first weddings and might opt for something more simple and mature because that suits their tastes. Other second-time brides never got to wear fairytale wedding dresses the first go-around. Brides should wear what they love, and what makes them feel beautiful.
At Bel Fiore, we have a wide selection of bridal gowns from traditional to contemporary, formal to informal, and white to prints. We also have an awesome selection of formal wear available in white, ivory, and many other colors – for those brides short on time or that have simpler tastes.
Make your appointment today to have an expert consultant help you choose your attire. We’ll help you celebrate this special time, AND find your perfect gown! We hope to see you soon!
Happy Planning!
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