Tips For Toasting!

All About Toasting… Tips for You!

Who: It’s now common for people other than the best man to speak – fathers, the groom, the maid of honor.  But don’t leave things to chance; the couple should decide ahead of time who will speak and in what order.

What: Toasts should always be positive – and clean – and end with a wish for the couple’s happiness.  Toast givers can start by mentioning their connection to the couple, but should keep the focus to the bride and groom, not on themselves.  Customization is key: An anecdote about the just-marrieds is a plus, as is suggesting why they’re perfect for each other.

When: A captive audience is a receptive audience.  2 good times: as the first course is being served, or right after the first dance.  Be sure to give toast givers a heads-up, so they’re not at the bar when it’s showtime.

Where: The toast giver can leave his seat and head for the microphone to make his big speech, or he can simply stand at his table and begin speaking.

How: Anything over 3 minutes will have guests’ eyes glazing over, so toast givers should keep it short.

*What should the bride and groom do during a toast?

Since the toast is being made in your honor, remain seated when everyone else rises.  Maintain eye contact with the toast-giver as a morale booster and so guests will follow your cue.  When everyone takes a sip at the end, the two of you should wait a minute before joining in, to avoid looking as though you’re drinking to yourselves.

Check out our selection of Personalized Champagne Flutes to toast to your happiness!  Keep them for years to come!

Have you given a toast? Any tips on how to make it the best?

Happy Planning!  Cheers!

Meghan

Thanks to “Brides” for the help toasting!

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